Don't want to hurt any body feelings. Its my opinion.
When I Open any news channel or any news paper, I found at least a news of Girl!!
1) Girl Rape
2) Female Foeticide (Destroying a Baby Girl via Abortion or via Inhuman acts)
3) Torture on a Girl After Marriage (Due to Dowry or not able to give birth to a male child)
4) Due to Marriage Issue (Caste Based System)
Such news are very common in TV Channels and news papers. And whenever i read such news i just feel frustrated, Shameful.
In India where most are Hindus and they worship Goddesses Lakshmi, Saraswati, Parvati, Durga, Kali and many more.
Its hard to believe but true that every part of society, states Girls are treated in same way.
When a baby boy born, there is a celebration across family and relatives, but if a Girl born in same family then its normal, It may not be true but majority of Indian families are like that.
In India where cultural traditions reflects that a baby boy will take care of Family, Parents in need . And baby Girl once she become adult, will be married to Boy of other family, and after that the Girl will no longer be a part of her Family. she will be a part of her Husband Family. But thats culture.
Why Families wants Baby Boy (In General) :
1) If there is no boy in family, Then who will take care family and business, and name of family.
2) If there is more Girls in Family, then its Huge burden of there marriages and studies, and Parents feel its waste of money as someday she will get married and after that she will be part of other family.
3) Girls Safety and Taking Care of Girl is also a huge burden.
And Crime related to Girls , getting increased year by year.
Female/Male Child Ratio difference is increasing year by year.
Such things are Inhuman in nature.
What will happen if Girls Ratio reduced to half compare to Boy and further to quarter. MALE/FEMALE Ratio ------ 1000/500 .. 1000/250 ...
So is any thing we can do to stop "Female Foeticide" ..
1) Dont Support Dowry.
2) Awareness, those who are less educated and who feels Girls as a burden.
3) Financial support to the family.
4) Changing Mindset, That only boys can take care of family and girls are not.
5) Girls should take more responsibility and take initiate to change her image. and show her strength to the others.
Female Roles is very important in MALE Life. From Birth, A Girl is a sister of some body, Daughter of some body, Then she become wife of some body , mother of some body. So you can imagine a life without a Girl around you.
Everybody wants to marry with a Beautiful bride, but very few wants a beautiful baby girl.
Hope things will change and things have to change else no future.
