Recently Watched 2 Bollywood Movies : Dil to Baccha Hai Ji and Pyar Ka Punchnama
Both movies are very entertaining, include little bit Comedy, Romance etc.. And in my opinion its a youth movie and peoples aged between 15 to 35 will like this movie alot.
In Short, both movies stories include 3 Guys loves 3 Girls, and Guys used to do everything to impress Girls via supporting financially, morally and in all ways so that they can create a good impression in front of Girl which they love, But in the end all 3 Girls dump the Guys or Relationship didn't workout, so these movies creating impression like Girls using Guys for Fun, Money, and to pass time etc..
But very common thing in both movies story is, Creating bad image of Girls (Main Actresses) in movies.
These movies impacting slowly slowly (i.e. Creating bad image of Working Bachelor Girls) in young peoples and i feel it will impact badly in Man-Women Relationships.
After Eduction Life, Once a person start professional life it can be divided in three kinds
1) Bachelor, Enjoying with Friends
2) In Relationship, Committed
3) Newly Married
After watching such movies, whats the perception (i.e. Image) created in Guys mind about Girls,
And once a guy going to start a relationship, or Commitment with a Girl, Internally he will feel many times about Girl, her Character about her Past relationships and whether i trust the Girl or Not And once relationship start with such feeling, it may lead to serious consequences.
And in Girls Mind also, once a relationship broken , Girl may also feel that it may be due to Girl side Problem.
And if things are not going fine between two Committed persons, then both persons try to co-relate the problem in there relationships with such movie instance and in that way it may lead to serious consequences to either Breakup or Mental Torture, Depression etc ...
In Indian Culture, such movies impacting badly, Peoples above age 40, they are living happily with there family from many years,
But Young peoples they are confused and scared about future Relationships.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Monday, June 27, 2011
Real Vs Virtual Relationships ..
Software/ IT Engg Lives in Two World .. One Real World and other Virtual (Internet /Computer World). So correspondingly maintaining relationships both sides :) and this is increasing to other parts of society too.
Real Relationships are those which exist in physically,closely like Parents-Child Relationship and others where you are closely attached with others.
And Virtual Relationships are those which exist just Virtually, like distance relationships, and which exist with the help of some media. like Orkut, Facebook etc ..
Facebook, orkut are social networking sites, where u can connect virtually to you all old college/school time friends and you can share your status updates to them and they can share with you, And your connectivity with new friends increase with old one still connected with you. So with the help of social sites we are able to connect virtually to others and its not matter at all where other friends living, earning as we are virtually connected over Internet and Social Site. Now Social sites are gaining more popularity and over passing real relationships as on Social sites, person used to update daily there status, sharing snaps etc.. and In same person family (Real Relationship) may not be knowing about these things ....
So Technology helps alot in building relationships and increases connectivity, But
Is Virtual relationships impacting Real Relationships ?
Initially, Suppose 2 Friends A and B, A & B used to meet, then A & B used to call each other, then A & B used to chat over internet and then A & B just updating status over social sites and connected with each other over social sites !! A & B are connected with each other for a longer time, but they are enjoying there old friendship now ??
To enjoy life we need real friends and relationships !! So its up to us how we are balancing both Virtual and Real Relationships !!
Real Relationships are those which exist in physically,closely like Parents-Child Relationship and others where you are closely attached with others.
And Virtual Relationships are those which exist just Virtually, like distance relationships, and which exist with the help of some media. like Orkut, Facebook etc ..
Facebook, orkut are social networking sites, where u can connect virtually to you all old college/school time friends and you can share your status updates to them and they can share with you, And your connectivity with new friends increase with old one still connected with you. So with the help of social sites we are able to connect virtually to others and its not matter at all where other friends living, earning as we are virtually connected over Internet and Social Site. Now Social sites are gaining more popularity and over passing real relationships as on Social sites, person used to update daily there status, sharing snaps etc.. and In same person family (Real Relationship) may not be knowing about these things ....
So Technology helps alot in building relationships and increases connectivity, But
Is Virtual relationships impacting Real Relationships ?
Initially, Suppose 2 Friends A and B, A & B used to meet, then A & B used to call each other, then A & B used to chat over internet and then A & B just updating status over social sites and connected with each other over social sites !! A & B are connected with each other for a longer time, but they are enjoying there old friendship now ??
To enjoy life we need real friends and relationships !! So its up to us how we are balancing both Virtual and Real Relationships !!
Friday, December 10, 2010
Rise And Fall .....
!! Rise And Fall !!
Seems two sides of a same coin ......
"Popularity or Business Growth etc etc" of an Individual or Company can be measured as a Rise And "Downfall and Business Loss etc etc" of an Individual of Company can be measured as a Fall.
One Time Yahoo Mail was popular .. Now Gmail overtakes it ..
One Time orkut is best in social sites .. Now facebook become popular in social networking sites ..
In 90's Tata Motors are most reliable and most used vehicles in India .. but now Tata loses India Market Comparison to other .
One Time Narendar Modi Image is very bad in Media due to Riots .. but now he is one of the best CM in India.
Rise and Fall is the part .. One who rises .. He will also face Failures of Fall .. But what matters is the Intensity of Failure in terms of Loss (Money or Self Respect) and Image of Company Or due to a new Competitor in Market.
Many students doing suicide or in Depression due to Competition or Pressure which they are not able to cope, Or they feel they are not able to achieve for which they worked too hard or it may happen because they might not tasted "Failure" .. But life is beautifull , Just think Poeples who are blind or handicapped or not able to live like a Normal human Being but still they live and Enjoy it in there way, By doing Suicide how many beautifull moments of life they are going to loose so we should not give up.
Some people says i am very successfull, and i achieved what i want, "But have they taken any risk , or ever tried to do something different in his life" ..
Failure is the most important part of Success and Rise. Without Failures or Falls we cannot realize what is true Success or Rise.
We should Realize the Change in advance and perpare ourself accordingly.
!! Perseverance !!
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He failed in business in '31.
He was defeated for state legislator in '32.
He tried another business in '33. It failed.
His fiancee died in '35.
He had a nervous breakdown in '36.
In '43 he ran for congress and was defeated.
He tried again in '48 and was defeated again.
He tried running for the Senate in '55. He lost.
The next year he ran for Vice President and lost.
In '59 he ran for the Senate again and was defeated.
In 1860, the man who signed his name
A. Lincoln, was elected the 16th President of the United States.
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Friday, September 17, 2010
Your Life Your Choice
Recently i read book "Who Moved My Cheese" by Dr. Spencer Johnson.
I like that book as its gives a Simple ways for How to deal with Problems, Change and Difficult Situation.
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From Book: Who Moved My Cheese
Just Imagine ..
Cheese : Imagine Cheese as Happiness / Success , it may be at Relationship, at Work, at Personnel Level, Any thing.
Maze: Its an unknown Journey, problems to find the Cheese (Happiness and Success).
And 4 Characters:
2 Mice (Scurry And Sniff) : Very small in nature and very simple. Sniff just realize the change or sniff, and Scurry just execute an Action And think about Result.
2 Small People( Hem And Haw) : Small in nature, but more intelligent and Smarter than mice.
Story goes like that ..
All 4, Mice and Little People, after little struggle and after going through Maze, all finds the Cheese let say "Cheese Station C". (for all 4 it may taste different). And daily they are eating and enjoying there cheese. And they are very satisfied. And little peoples are very satisfied with the achievement, they feels that after a struggle finally they find there cheese and this cheese is enough for their life.
Soon, Little Mice realizes that Cheese is getting reduce day by day and little people are very relaxed and enjoying cheese daily.
But one day,
When little Mice Notice, that there is no more cheese left at cheese station, So Sniff just sniff the New Cheese and Scurry acted and they go out into Maze to find New Cheese.
And once little people reached to Cheese Station C, they noticed that there is no more cheese left, and as they are no Prepared for that situation, they getting angered, shouted , Screamed "who taken our cheese", "No Cheese", "No Cheese". Little people get shocked and they are not able to understand why it happen to them and its not Fair, and they are just over analyzing the situation and waited there at Station C and with little hope expecting that soon they will put back Cheese at Station C.
Little people "Hem and Haw" daily coming and searching for Cheese at Station C and slowly slowly getting frustrated and stressed as they are not able to find Cheese at Station C. Haw want to go out to Maze to find new Cheese but Hem is not interested to go out to Maze as Hem feels that its an unknown place and they may face alot of trouble.
But soon Haw came out from "Cheese Station C " to Maze for finding New Cheese. And Haw is trying hard to find new cheese and Analyzing his decisions what he loose in Not acting fast and by not realizing the change early.
Now little mice find a New Big Cheese Station "Cheese Station N", and they are more happy now, than compared to last time.
And Haw is still searching for New Cheese and trying hard and one day he Found Cheese Station N and old friends, And Haw enjoyed the new Cheese and new Taste .
And Hem is still waiting at Cheese Station C, for expecting that thing will be improved automatically one day And he will get the same Cheese again.
So simple message what we will "Loose" or "Gain" If we don't sense the change timely and Act accordingly. Only one thing is permanent in this world that is "CHANGE".
"Smell the Change Time To Time
And Prepare Yourself Accordingly"
"The Quicker let you go of old cheese
The Sooner you can Enjoy new Cheese"
"Be Ready to Change Quickly
And Enjoy it Again and Again"
"Don't Afraid , Over Analyze And Fear
Believe on your Capabilities and Start Again"
So read the book again and again, surely every time you will get new thing.
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Once i read the book, i just trying to put my self in 1 of 4 Characters. And trying to Improve my way of living. Better Late Than Never.
I like that book as its gives a Simple ways for How to deal with Problems, Change and Difficult Situation.
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From Book: Who Moved My Cheese
Just Imagine ..
Cheese : Imagine Cheese as Happiness / Success , it may be at Relationship, at Work, at Personnel Level, Any thing.
Maze: Its an unknown Journey, problems to find the Cheese (Happiness and Success).
And 4 Characters:
2 Mice (Scurry And Sniff) : Very small in nature and very simple. Sniff just realize the change or sniff, and Scurry just execute an Action And think about Result.
2 Small People( Hem And Haw) : Small in nature, but more intelligent and Smarter than mice.
Story goes like that ..
All 4, Mice and Little People, after little struggle and after going through Maze, all finds the Cheese let say "Cheese Station C". (for all 4 it may taste different). And daily they are eating and enjoying there cheese. And they are very satisfied. And little peoples are very satisfied with the achievement, they feels that after a struggle finally they find there cheese and this cheese is enough for their life.
Soon, Little Mice realizes that Cheese is getting reduce day by day and little people are very relaxed and enjoying cheese daily.
But one day,
When little Mice Notice, that there is no more cheese left at cheese station, So Sniff just sniff the New Cheese and Scurry acted and they go out into Maze to find New Cheese.
And once little people reached to Cheese Station C, they noticed that there is no more cheese left, and as they are no Prepared for that situation, they getting angered, shouted , Screamed "who taken our cheese", "No Cheese", "No Cheese". Little people get shocked and they are not able to understand why it happen to them and its not Fair, and they are just over analyzing the situation and waited there at Station C and with little hope expecting that soon they will put back Cheese at Station C.
Little people "Hem and Haw" daily coming and searching for Cheese at Station C and slowly slowly getting frustrated and stressed as they are not able to find Cheese at Station C. Haw want to go out to Maze to find new Cheese but Hem is not interested to go out to Maze as Hem feels that its an unknown place and they may face alot of trouble.
But soon Haw came out from "Cheese Station C " to Maze for finding New Cheese. And Haw is trying hard to find new cheese and Analyzing his decisions what he loose in Not acting fast and by not realizing the change early.
Now little mice find a New Big Cheese Station "Cheese Station N", and they are more happy now, than compared to last time.
And Haw is still searching for New Cheese and trying hard and one day he Found Cheese Station N and old friends, And Haw enjoyed the new Cheese and new Taste .
And Hem is still waiting at Cheese Station C, for expecting that thing will be improved automatically one day And he will get the same Cheese again.
So simple message what we will "Loose" or "Gain" If we don't sense the change timely and Act accordingly. Only one thing is permanent in this world that is "CHANGE".
"Smell the Change Time To Time
And Prepare Yourself Accordingly"
"The Quicker let you go of old cheese
The Sooner you can Enjoy new Cheese"
"Be Ready to Change Quickly
And Enjoy it Again and Again"
"Don't Afraid , Over Analyze And Fear
Believe on your Capabilities and Start Again"
So read the book again and again, surely every time you will get new thing.
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Once i read the book, i just trying to put my self in 1 of 4 Characters. And trying to Improve my way of living. Better Late Than Never.
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Kavita ..
Ek Kavita Movie Udaan Se
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Jo lehron se aage nazar dekh paati
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon,
Wo aawaz tumko bhi jo bhed jaati
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon.
Zid ka tumhare jo parda sarakta
toh khidkiyon se aage bhi tum dekh paate,
Aankhon se aadaton ki jo palken hatate
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon.
Meri tarah khud par hota zara bharosa
toh kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate,
Rang meri aankhon ka baant-te zara sa
toh kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate,
Nasha aasmaan ka jo choomta tumhe bhi,
hasraten tumhari naya janm paatin,
Khud doosre janam mein meri
udaan chhoone kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate.
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This Poem is from Hindi movie Udaan.
Udaan is a very simple movie with a very good message. Its a story of a Boy Rohan and His dad Ronit Roy who lives in Jamshedpur and he is a Businessman. Rohan expelled from his school after a incident, and he rejoins with his family mainly a Father and a younger half brother after 8 years. Rohan was not aware of that, that he has a younger brother as Rohan father did 2nd marriage.
Ronit Roy, Rohan's father he is a business man, and he is little different or frustrated guy.
And once Rohan joins his family back, his father and his nature doesn't match at all, His father is like a Ruler, who doesn't listen other views and forced his views to others. Rohan wants to become a writer, but his father doesn't bother to see his writing at all, and put him in engg college. He made some rules to live at his home and Rohan and his brother have to follow those else leave the home no choice.
Rohan bear his father torture and also torture on his younger brother, and saturation point reached and he finally left his father home and taken his younger brother .
So its a nice script and well directed movie.
"Don't force your thoughts on others, try to convince by putting your points and by listening other views."
Sunday, August 15, 2010
My Experience with Bangalore
Dear All,
This blog is about my experience with Bangalore City.
Bangalore, Or Garden City of India, or IT City of India.
I came to Bangalore around 4 years back in search of Software Job. When I reached Bangalore, I stayed out skirts of the city with my brother in ISRO quarters. And after few days when I didn’t get any job interview call, I just feel sad and I didn’t like the Bangalore at all and I just want to go back to my home town soon. But my father just motivating me always to search a S/W Job in Bangalore and just stay for some more time. And I use to prepare for written test, but I didn’t get call for few weeks, but soon things changed and I got the Job. And things changed a lot after that. After that I realize few good things about Bangalore.
1st thing you notice is Kannada Language, but some time you can’t distinguish whether it’s Tamil, Malayalam, Telugu or Kannada in case you are North Indian. But don’t be scared due to language, as all states have something uniqueness in its own way and Language is one of the main. Just remember few words like “Kannad Gotila” means “I don’t know Kannada.
2nd thing you notice about Bangalore is Weather, Such a nice weather in Bangalore, you just love then any thing else. There is no summer, winter as such, as weather is average whole the year. I never used "Rajai" as I used to use in winter in north side. And during summer I never skipped some thing due to sunny day or hot weather.
3rd thing you will realize about Bangalore its Greenery and Big Trees. Bangalore has many gardens and Lakes. Both sides of the rode you will notice big trees. Here in Bangalore Govt. makes rodes by trying to save greenery as much as possible as you will find trees in between the Roads too.
Today on 15th August 2010, Independence Day, when I was traveling from my brother home to my rented room by Local BMTC bus, I saw few thing from the bus window, many Auto Riksha, Buses attached Indian Flag “Tiranga” on front side and Flag Hosting on Road sides, it’s a great feeling and it cant be explain in words. Such things realize me that how much great full I am. I can proudly say that I Am Indian. I just realize what will happen if we are not Indian, or we are taken birth in some less fortunate/developed countries. India is such a beautiful country with a lot of opportunities and uniqueness of its own.
In End a Good Quote which I like most
“I wept because I had no Shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”
Have A Wonder full Day. Keep Smiling
Best Regards
Anuj Gupta
This blog is about my experience with Bangalore City.
Bangalore, Or Garden City of India, or IT City of India.
I came to Bangalore around 4 years back in search of Software Job. When I reached Bangalore, I stayed out skirts of the city with my brother in ISRO quarters. And after few days when I didn’t get any job interview call, I just feel sad and I didn’t like the Bangalore at all and I just want to go back to my home town soon. But my father just motivating me always to search a S/W Job in Bangalore and just stay for some more time. And I use to prepare for written test, but I didn’t get call for few weeks, but soon things changed and I got the Job. And things changed a lot after that. After that I realize few good things about Bangalore.
1st thing you notice is Kannada Language, but some time you can’t distinguish whether it’s Tamil, Malayalam, Telugu or Kannada in case you are North Indian. But don’t be scared due to language, as all states have something uniqueness in its own way and Language is one of the main. Just remember few words like “Kannad Gotila” means “I don’t know Kannada.
2nd thing you notice about Bangalore is Weather, Such a nice weather in Bangalore, you just love then any thing else. There is no summer, winter as such, as weather is average whole the year. I never used "Rajai" as I used to use in winter in north side. And during summer I never skipped some thing due to sunny day or hot weather.
3rd thing you will realize about Bangalore its Greenery and Big Trees. Bangalore has many gardens and Lakes. Both sides of the rode you will notice big trees. Here in Bangalore Govt. makes rodes by trying to save greenery as much as possible as you will find trees in between the Roads too.
Today on 15th August 2010, Independence Day, when I was traveling from my brother home to my rented room by Local BMTC bus, I saw few thing from the bus window, many Auto Riksha, Buses attached Indian Flag “Tiranga” on front side and Flag Hosting on Road sides, it’s a great feeling and it cant be explain in words. Such things realize me that how much great full I am. I can proudly say that I Am Indian. I just realize what will happen if we are not Indian, or we are taken birth in some less fortunate/developed countries. India is such a beautiful country with a lot of opportunities and uniqueness of its own.
In End a Good Quote which I like most
“I wept because I had no Shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”
Have A Wonder full Day. Keep Smiling
Best Regards
Anuj Gupta
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
1st Blog, Will Try to make a habit
When i used to read blogs of some celebrities like Amitabh Bachchan or My Friends, Just i dream some day may be i will write such kind of Blogs, And some person will read those blogs.
So today i started to write a blog of my own, But i don't have any thing to share with you, as alot of Random thoughts jumping in my mind.
Well i will share something about Books which i read recently :
1. Ignited Minds .. By Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
This book is written by our Former President and A Scientist. And this book try to motivate young generations of India to Dream Big and to achieve a vision of Developed India.
Young Generation -> Dream -> Then Thought -> Then Action.
Dr. kalam Shared his experiences of his career to motivate young generation and to develope patriotic feelings in younger generations.
2. Wise And Otherwise .. By Mrs. Sudha Murthy
This book is written by Mrs. Sudha Murthy , wife of Infosys Chief Mentor Mr. Narayana Murthy. This is first book i read which is written by her. Well Written. She shared her life experiences in short stories. And these stories are amazing and well written, it help you to face life problems strongly and helps to develop a Good character with in us.
3. The Roller Coaster Ride .. By Saumil Shrivastava
This book is well written, And 1st book written by Saumil. Congrats Saumil for writing such a nice book. This book is about a Guy Maddy From IIT Bombay and 2 Girls (Pooja, Divya) one from BITS and his 4 Roommates. And story is about Love Affairs between Maddy-Pooja, And Maddy-Divya. And Maddy is a very good guy who works in Gurgaon, who loves very much to both girls in both affairs (affair one after another), but both Girls Cheated and how Maddy recovers from such big losses of Love of his life.
So to know more about these books its good to read the books. As Books teaches alot in many ways.
For 1st blog i think thats enough ......... Have A Good Day .....
So today i started to write a blog of my own, But i don't have any thing to share with you, as alot of Random thoughts jumping in my mind.
Well i will share something about Books which i read recently :
1. Ignited Minds .. By Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
This book is written by our Former President and A Scientist. And this book try to motivate young generations of India to Dream Big and to achieve a vision of Developed India.
Young Generation -> Dream -> Then Thought -> Then Action.
Dr. kalam Shared his experiences of his career to motivate young generation and to develope patriotic feelings in younger generations.
2. Wise And Otherwise .. By Mrs. Sudha Murthy
This book is written by Mrs. Sudha Murthy , wife of Infosys Chief Mentor Mr. Narayana Murthy. This is first book i read which is written by her. Well Written. She shared her life experiences in short stories. And these stories are amazing and well written, it help you to face life problems strongly and helps to develop a Good character with in us.
3. The Roller Coaster Ride .. By Saumil Shrivastava
This book is well written, And 1st book written by Saumil. Congrats Saumil for writing such a nice book. This book is about a Guy Maddy From IIT Bombay and 2 Girls (Pooja, Divya) one from BITS and his 4 Roommates. And story is about Love Affairs between Maddy-Pooja, And Maddy-Divya. And Maddy is a very good guy who works in Gurgaon, who loves very much to both girls in both affairs (affair one after another), but both Girls Cheated and how Maddy recovers from such big losses of Love of his life.
So to know more about these books its good to read the books. As Books teaches alot in many ways.
For 1st blog i think thats enough ......... Have A Good Day .....
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